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updated July 3, 2003
Q
of the week:
PUPPY
BITING
"I'm
trying to register early for your puppy kindergarten program. My
vet recommended I wait until Jake received all of his shots.
[She is registering for the Sept 30 PK - the pup will be 5 mo old
by then.]
However, I have one concern that I'm not sure how to take care of.
My dog is 7 weeks as of 6/30/03. I've had him for one week. During
this time, he constantly nips and bites my husband and I (we don't
have any kids). I've tried using peanut butter to practice "good
kisses" but he gets diarrhea. I've tried to yelp but he gets more
aggressive the more we yelp (he has even tried to attack our face).
So we follow up with placing him in time out. But this only remedies
the situation the 15 minutes after we get him out of time out. Our
vet recommended we grab his snout and hold it shut but he just gets
more aggressive, butts us with his nose, bites harder, and growls.
I'm wondering if this is normal or if we are creating a really aggressive
dog. I've read in a ton of books that this 7 -16 week phase is critical
for the pup and I don't want to mess it up. Can you recommend anything
to me? I'm so worried I'm creating a monster."
Puppy:
Jake, 7 week old Boxer male, left the litter at 6 weeks.
Owners: young couple, first time dog
owners who have
good instincts and are doing their homework!
Problem: Biting & mouthing. Aggressive
response to corrective measures
advised by the vet. Overstimulation. Upset stomach from peanut butter.
Conflict over book's advice that puppies need early socialization
and vet
recommendation of no puppy class til he is done with all this vaccinations
- at 5 months.
HOORAAAAAAAY CATHY!
She's
right. Jake is in a critical phase of his life. He is learning the
stuff now that is molding him into the adult dog he will be. Since
I've not seen the dog, it's tough to address this problem with anything
other than the "blanket general stuff", which we all do in classes
all of the time, so that's what I will do now.
My
first recommendation to this couple would be to get a different
vet.
Secondly,
I would very highly recommend her to wait no longer than she absolutely
has to and get him into a class at the beginning of August, not
the end of September.
Next
I would hand feed Jake every single morsel of food that goes into
his mouth for the next 2 to 3 weeks, and longer if necessary.
This
dog is well on his way to ruling the roost in this household and
needs to learn that his house already has a confident, safe leader.
If he doesn't already sleep in a crate go out and buy one today.
This, most probably, will be one of the easier things to teach him.
Most dogs adapt to crates very quickly and housebreaking will be
a breeze. No more getting up on the furniture (if he does) or the
bed. Jake's place is on the floor or in the crate.
Although
yelping when the dog has been too rough with his teeth is effective
for some dogs, it's not for Jake. She says it just makes his escalate.
I think being black and white about what is right and what isn't
right is called for here. She mentioned that the time outs worked
for 15 minutes or so. I would tell her to keep the concept of the
time-out, but change how it is carried out.
Whenever
he escalates with his people, I would tell them to either get up
and leave him immediately with a disgusted, "hmmmph", for about
60 seconds (no longer than that) and return to him with a "Let's
try again" attitude without grudges, OR....boot him out the door
or into another room with the same "little shiester" thought for
a short time and then when you let him come back, act as though
he put himself out there: "Jake, what were you doing out on the
porch?" Having a trailing line on him would be really helpful as
you could just escort him to the other side of the door and close
it on the line, leaving him with only a couple feet of leash to
deal with for a short time. The whole thing happens so fast that
the message is abundantly clear: When I bite and lunge and be a
mean dog, I end up without anybody. This needs to be done every
time he gets out of hand.
He
needs to realize that his actions have consequences. Whether they
are good consequences or bad ones are up to him. The grabbing and
holding of his snout is a game that he feels he should win, hence
the harder bites, nosing and growling. I wouldn't encourage this
kind of play at all. Games need to be controlled and played with
a price to pay. If he wants to chase the ball, he needs to sit first.
If he wants attention, have him sit. No hands on the dog unless
he sits or does a down, or whatever you tell him. For Jake, everything
has a price, and he needs to have very clear, black and white, fair
direction from you. .......
AND
from Kim-
Well,
I have seen labs do a pretty good version of this! As well as terriers,
herding breeds, sporting dogs, and basically any other breed. So,
no my first question is not what breed is the dog, but what VET
is he going to??????? (PLEASE dont say Wandermere!!!) If the family
really does not want to come to class, which they should, have Cathy
do an in home with them. Leadership, early neuter, classes all come
to mind. I do like time outs. If it starts up after 15 minutes do
another time out. STOP muzzle wrapping him. Peanut butter for "good
kisses"???? Sorry but this does not really make sense to me. If
it were El, he would lick all the PB off and then bite convinced
"I know there is more there, I can still smell it!!" Okay, you know
me, this is the first of many........... To be continued, Kim
It's
used to teach the puppy to lick instead of bite. Works quite well
actually! One of my students discovered that sunflower seeds also
worked well - the dog is consumed with getting the next tiny thing
- gives you the opportunity to reward appropriate interaction. *S*
My
gut, he will out grow this. He was taken from his littermates when
he should have stayed with them to to learn bite inhibition.
Okay,
so the game goes:
puppy bite/nip - mom-dad reward with vocalize
puppy bit/nip - mom-dad reward with PB on skin (?)
puppy bite/nip - mom-dad reward with physical contact (muzzle wrap)
I
say "reward" to all of mom and dad's stuff because all of these
actions seem to continue the behavior or escalate it. They continue
the game by continuing contact/interaction with puppy.
The
only thing that has seemed to work, thus far, is the time out. Tho
it only lasts for a few minutes, it is working to a degree. So what
about trying the "Mary Ingals" thing when the pup bites/nips? interaction
stops and family is turned away. They can even holler "OUCH!!" and
then turn away/end the "game". But don't "yelp" and stay in the
pups face giving him the opportunity to bite their face, and inviting
the behavior to continue. I have seen puppies to this amongst themselves.
Puppy one growl/pounce/bite...puppy two "yelp"/lunge back/bite muzzle....puppy
one and two continue back and forth, rolling around on the floor,
chasing each other oblivious to anything else in the room. Is he
seeing mom and dad as puppy too in this case?
If
PB is causing diarrhea, maybe switch substance used or just ad some
white rice to his regular diet to compensate and deal with a bit
of soft stools to help teach??
Get
him into class so he can play with other pups!!!
ASAP-Please!!
The
main thing to remember is how young he is - at 7 weeks we are seeing
his basic hereditary temperament in it's raw form (hence a very
real future need for clear leadership - he's going to be a real
jerk at adolescence at this rate) but at this age, it's less about
status, and all about action and reaction - response to stimuli.
Being
"attacked" physically pisses him off. Push - he pushes back. This
is likely as much a fault of the corrective technique as the strong
personality of the pup. "Grabbing his snout and holding it
shut" might have been done in anger and could have been painful,
if not scary.
At
any rate, the puppy was having a MARvelous time playing like normal
puppies play and all of a sudden his "playmate" grabbed
him by his face and he didn't like it. We must encourage the pet
owners to work proactively to NOT trigger that attitude and stress
the importance of shaping a more compliant relaxed attitude through
non-confrontational means. Desensitize. Set him up for success.
And
what is this NO CLASSES TIL HE'S COMPLETELY DONE WITH ALL HIS SHOTS?
*sigh* This pet owner may have a chance to educate her vet, so we
have to send her armed with good information from reliable sources,
and an alternate plan should her vet still advise her to wait.
My reply :
Hi Terri- I am concerned about
the level of retaliatory anger your puppy is showing - puppy mouthing
and biting are absolutely normal, but the level of his aggressive
reaction is a little extreme. I hope the following info will help
get you off on the right track!
I
think this is something that you should get a handle on right away,
but not through confrontational or physically corrective means.
You want to avoid escalation of aggression at all costs and quietly
and gently desensitize him to handling. Think trust and respect,
not fear and domination.
It
sounds like he is pretty easily overstimulated already. Pick times
when he is relaxed and tired, not revved up. Slow, gentle massage
while he is sleeping in your lap. Massage his toes, ears and neck.
You want to condition him to look forward to and enjoy, not fear
or become resentful of human touch. At first concentrate on places
he enjoys and gradually work until you can easily handle all his
body parts, even ones that he doesn't like having touched. You are
working on relaxation and willing compliance.
The
oil in the peanut butter is probably having a little laxative effect
- you might try something a little more bland - cream cheese, baby
food, rice - his stomach will get used to variety as he gets older
and you won't see such a big reaction to new things. Like any baby,
introduce new things in small amounts. The goal is to have the opportunity
to praise him for licking, withdraw the food if he bites, wait for
him to settle, deliver the messy fingers again for licking. High
pitched yelps apparently excite him. Experiment with the tone of
voice that works - you are looking for a mild startle/withdraw response:
"oops, sorry" - it's information not correction. Whatever
sound you make predicts the withholding of reward, the abrupt end
of playtime or attention.
Be
aware of his point of overstimulation and give him consistent information:
he needs to know your cut-off point. *That* level of behavior makes
me totally insulted and I get up in a huff and leave you dumped
on the floor alone. Don't attack your puppy, just growl and leave
dramatically. 'Alone' at this age is not what he wants. A time-out
can be you leaving or him being put away for a nap. Avoid any games
that elicit growling or biting. Don't let visitors play roughly
with him EVER.
Quit
while you are ahead. If a time-out gets you 15 minutes of gentle
interaction, stop at 12 minutes - end on a good note! Short positive
sessions. Think proactive not reactive.
This
sounds like the type of pup who is really going to require early
and rich socialization with people, kids, other animals. There is
a very real risk of disease, but he may be at a greater risk of
growing into a dog who bites if you don't.
I
hope perhaps you'll be able to take those books you've been reading
about the critical socialization periods with you for your next
vet visit . While it's a fact that puppies are at risk of picking
up viruses in the world (and it is your vet's job to guard his physical
well-being), but "bubble boy" puppies who stay cloistered at home
until they are all done with their shots can also be at a greater
risk of becoming antisocial dogs who can't cope with life.
At
a recent seminar that I attended Ian Dunbar (DVM, PhD) noted that
the 'most' critical socialization period starts before the pup leaves
the litter: 4 wks to 12 wks - so socialization needs to start with
the breeder and continue from there. (The books say 7 weeks because
that's about the earliest a puppy should leave its litter - yours
left the litter about a week too soon.) Ian's quote is "100 new
people by the age of 3 months." That's a lot of people!
Beyond
16 wks you've missed laying the groundwork for your puppy's social
life. At 5 mo they begin to recognize that there are strangers in
the world and are about to head into a second fear imprint period
in early adolescence - the hardest time developmentally to socialize.
If your vet advises you to wait, you will have to find other creative
ways to meet your puppy's social needs over the next few critical
months.
At
the seminar both Ian & Jennifer Messer DVM recommended an accelerated
vaccination schedule, 3 vaccinations by 3 months and begin puppy
classes in a class with other vaccinated puppies at 12 weeks. Prior
to being able to attend class, they advised that puppy owners not
walk their pups in public parks or around the neighborhood where
stray/unvaccinated dogs travel until after the 4th vaccine, but
to meet the need for socialization by inviting lots of kind, gentle
people of all ages to their home and carry the puppy everywhere:
the video store to rent videos, the grocery store to sit outside
with the puppy on your lap and watch people and carts and kids go
by.
Some
suggestions: wherever there are sights and sounds and smells and
a wide variety of ages of people who might want to pet him, while
he is still small enough to be carried easily. (Places that don't
sell food or pets are good choices - Hastings, Home Depot, Garden
Centers, yard sales - just don't put him down on the ground where
the germs are and don't let him sniff noses with other animals.)
You want him to meet lots of gentle kids, especially since you don't
have any of your own.
There
are several vets in town who advise owners of 'high risk for social
issues' breeds (pitbulls, chows, shar peis, heelers, filas, etc)
to start classes as early as 10 weeks. Of course, the owners fully
realize they are weighing health risk over social risk.
Suggested
reading: The Perfect Puppy by Gwen Bailey; After You Get Your Puppy
by Ian Dunbar; Good Owners, Great Dogs by Brian Kilcommons. Great
video: Puppy Love - I think it's by Carolyn Clark & Karen Pryor.
You can get the above through Dogwise: www.dogwise.com
If
you feel you need some one-on-one help and would like to schedule
an in-home consult, please let me know. I'll pencil you in for the
Sept 30 Puppy K, but do talk to your vet and if they will give you
an earlier go-ahead for Puppy Preschool, please let me know. As
you are looking at his vaccination schedule and class starting dates,
note that the puppies don't attend the first week orientation, we
do 'people training' that week. So the date that your puppy would
come in contact with the other puppies would be week two.
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Her response / my reply
inserted:
>Hi
Carol,
Thank you SO MUCH for the advice! I'm definitely going to talk to
my vet about trying to get into one of the early classes. I agree,
I would much rather take a chance on a health risk than a social
one. The baby food is working really well and doesn't upset his
stomach. Now, I'm wondering what to do when he is all revved up.
The only games he is interested in are chasing us or playing tug-of-war
(hide-and-go-seek turns into chase). Everything else bores him.
You've probably read "Good Games, Bad Games
- How to Play With Your Dog" on the website- if not, do. Tug & chase
are self-reinforcing, games that he controls - and they build ego.
(Something it sounds like he'll never have a shortage of *wink*)
The trick is making all games by YOUR rules. If he gets in the habit
of running the show and getting physical with no on/off switch,
he's going to be a major handful by 5-6 months when he's 65-70 lbs
of sheer muscle. I'd highly encourage brain games over physical
ones. I'm attaching a handout that addresses rules, leadership and
speed limits. I can't stress strongly enough with this personality
type, he must never feel that the world revolves around him, or
that you were put on this earth to do his bidding. It's got to be
the other way around or you'll have real problems when he hits adolescence.
He needs to look to you for direction, ask not tell, wait for your
ok to do anything. Be the conduit to all good things - if he wants
the privilege of playing with you, he must play by the rules, or
all play stops.
>Ahhhh... the pains of owning a puppy. Are children going to be
this much work? :-)
By the time you get through raising this
baby, you'll be GREAT parents!
>
>Thanks also for the suggested reading. I'm going to pick up a couple
of those books. Right now I've read Family Dog by Richard A. Wolters,
Boxer Handbook by Joan Hustace Walker, and Training Your Boxer by
Joan Hustace Walker. >However, they all lack information like how
long does teething last?
They start to lose puppy teeth at 3 months
and have a full set by 6 months. Mouthing is normal puppy behavior.
See "Mouthing & Biting" handout.
>What
to do if they don't chew their toys or nylabones?
Scruff up the edges of the nylabones with
a rasp or go rub them on the sidewalk so they look like someone
else chewed them first, and then rub some squeeze cheese or something
sticky and yummy into the rough part - it will get him started.
You may need the softer "Gumabones" until he starts losing his baby
teeth. Go buy him a couple of Kong toys and feed him his meals in
them instead of his bowl.
>How
long does it take for your dog to learn good kisses and stop biting?
It's actually a good thing he's biting
now. He's getting lots of feedback and is learning to inhibit the
force of his bite. He needs to learn bite inhibition the first 4
months -by 4-5 months he's learned not to bite skin at all ever.
Again, don't let friends play slap fight or wrestling games which
condone biting!
>How
do you build a loving relationship with your puppy? All the books
I read are so structured. They don't explain what to do when you
aren't training them or provide you "what if" scenarios.
Your puppy is "learning" every waking moment.
Training happens 24/7. Real life training is way more important
than structured training times. You are training him even if you
don't know it. See "Changing Behavior" handout.
>For example, should you hold your puppy frequently to build a stronger
relationship;
Snuggle times are important. You shouldn't
allow him to dictate how, when and for how long - that's your job.
You don't want him flying onto your lap uninvited or marching willy-nilly
across you like a jungle gym, or plastered to you night and day
and becoming co-dependent either. Ask him to sit first, then invite
him up, do some nice massage and gentle handling and put him down
when you're done, before he decides to get down on his own. He should
be comfortable napping alone - and just as happy to share his space
if you decide you'd like to join him.
>if
they are scared, how long do you ignore them before comforting them
or do you ever comfort them; or if your dog is shaking when it's
scared, what do you do.
If your pup gets startled you want to appear
very nonchalant - "What? Let's go see!" and go investigate the scary
thing. Show him through your actions that it was no big deal and
nothing to worry about. He'll take confidence in your confidence.
Hugging and coddling only tells him he was right, it WAS life threatening
and it scared you, too. Petting and stroking "it's ok- it's alright"
is like praising him for shivering and stressing. Be cool. Go sit
by the scary thing and let him take his time sneaking over to find
out it isn't so bad after all. Praise for being brave.
>Will
the books you recommended help fill in some of those gaps? Also,
I just may be worrying WAAAAAYYY to much. :)
Like any first time parent!
>My
husband and I are interested in one-on-one help. If anything just
to learn more about our puppy's temperament and what will work best
to nurture him into a loving dog.
Cost for an in-home puppy visit is $30
an hour. What is your schedule like? Are there available times when
you and your husband would both be home that we could meet?
[I
will be meeting this little man next week! He (and his crate) are
off on a family trip - a drive to North Dakota!]

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